Monday, July 28, 2008

NaNa's Birthday

This past Saturday we celebrated my NaNa's 70th birthday. I know what you are thinking, she's only 70? Yes, as my husband so eloquently says, we "Forrests breed early and often". That being said, my grandmother is an amazing woman. Not only is she beautiful on the outside, she has a beautiful heart. She has 6 children, 17 grandchildren, 3 grandchild in-laws, and 6 great-grandchildren and she loves us each like we are the only one. Not ever once have I felt overlooked by her or my sweet PaPa who went to Heaven in December of 2006. What an amazing blessing to have such wonderful grandparents. My NaNa is so full of depth and wisdom. I love her so much! I only pray that I can live my first 70 years with the same purpose and integrity that she has lived hers. We had a great time at the party, and my children survived without a nap until almost 4:00! Wow! I was so tired when I got home from chasing them (Brian had to work) that I thought I would collapse, but it was well worth the trip! I can't wait to see how beautiful my NaNa looks on her 80th birthday, and how many great-grandchildren she will have by then!

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Roll Tide Roll

There is no telling how many of you I have angered just with my title. We went to visit my sister Jenny and her family in Tuscaloosa for the first time this past weekend. They moved there a few weeks ago because Duane is now the College minister at University Church of Christ. Aside from the sweltering heat it seems like a great place to be. They are enjoying it, especially Noah who believes that "Everything is better in Tuscaloosa". I'm sure that has nothing to do with constant access to a pool and the lake! We had a great time. Ty and Ansley loved playing with their cousins. Ty got a new favorite phrase from Micah of "Oh my word". I'm so thankful for phones, email, texting, and blogs so they don't feel so far away! I took some pictures and thought I would share them.

Tuesday, July 08, 2008

4th of July Fun

Campbell and Caroline with their Daddy
Ashton Kate
Katie Ann
Jack the Heartbreaker
Ansley climbing on things as usual!
She loved the necklaces from the parade!
Finally got him to look at the camera!
Malcolm
Newest Addition "Ben" Bonding with Aunt Kim

A disaster waiting to happen :)

We got to spend a lot of time with the Petty family last weekend. Kim and her family were in from Dallas and we celebrated the fourth with a big lunch and lots of fun. We were all so thankful that Karen got released from the hospital that day making it a much more wonderful day! My parents were in Tuscaloosa visiting my sister's new home so we didn't see them this year. We had a great time, and Ty and Ansley loved playing with all of their cousins. Here are some pictures from the weekend.

Sunday, July 06, 2008

Each Day is a Gift

I just wanted to take a minute to reflect on the events of this past week and the past few months. If there is anything that I have learned this year it is that each day is a precious gift not to be taken for granted. Those that you love can leave this world so quickly. After losing Evette in January life just didn't feel the same. I realized that I so often take for granted the people who I love and who mean so much to me. No one could have guessed that she would leave us so soon. I have to admit that some days this just produces more of a fear in me of losing people, but I am trying to channel that into a sincere appreciation for each moment with them instead. I still miss Evette terribly. Some days are harder than others. It seems that lately all of these random memories of her have been flooding back that I hadn't thought about since we lost her. Those are comforting and saddening at the same time. I want to snap my fingers and not be sad anymore, but I know that healing is a gradual process, and this will probably always be a point of sadness for me. At the same time, I rejoice that she is in a place where there is no sadness or pain. Next week will be 6 months since her death and also her birthday. Six months just doesn't heal the grief of someone you've loved for 20 years, but each day is a little better.
I was reminded again this week of how precious life is and not to take it for granted. Brian's sister, Karen, had a stroke on Thursday. She is 32 and in great health. She had a baby just a little over 2 weeks before. When Brian called me and said that she was in the hospital my heart sank and I felt sick. This could not be. We were all so scared and concerned, but immediately we started praying and so did many others. God protected Karen. His hand was on her through the entire thing. She had the stroke at the Pediatricians office rather than at home alone with her two young boys. She is doing great and will have no long term effects from the stroke. They found a hole in her heart that can be easily fixed. I have been praising God that He saved my precious sister-in-law from something potentially deadly. He still has so much for her to do here, and we can't imagine life without her.
So why did God protect Karen and take Evette? I don't know, but I'm thankful for His protection of Karen. I know in His infinite wisdom He has a plan that I can't possibly understand. Why did Karen have to have a stroke in the first place? I don't know, but maybe to protect her from something worse or most importantly so that God could be glorified in her life and the lives of others through this experience. Has God been glorified through Evette's death? Absolutely. No question. She would not have it any other way. I just want to remind myself and everyone else to hold your kids a little tighter and make time for the people you love no matter how "busy" you think you are. We are always told to "live every day like it's your last", but never have those words seemed more true to me. I will glorify God with all that I have each day because in life or death that is all that matters.

Tuesday, July 01, 2008

I'm Back!!!

We replaced the camera that forsook me (or I dropped), and I am back to posting. I'm still learning how the new one looks, but I am going to try to post some cute pics from this afternoon. I took the kids out to Mom and Dad's and they had fun with the wagon. Also, Happy Birthday yesterday to my handsome husband. The picture was taken on his birthday. I just didn't get around to posting. I'll post again soon!